How do I begin to figure out what the RIGHT direction is for me?
How many of you started high school with a different goal in mind than doing a degree in the area that you are currently in?
How many of you sat down and figured out what you wanted in a life partner and then went out and found him/her without dating any “wrong” people along the way?
For many the process of figuring out the correct path whether it is for education, career or relationships involves a few wrong turns before you find the right direction. What is most important is that you are constantly turning within and analyzing what makes you happy, satisfied, and is sufficiently challenging to keep you interested.
Deciding on a career is not just about finding the right job; it is also about finding a lifestyle that suits your needs. Start by thinking about your core beliefs, your character, your philosophy of life. What are your material needs? What are your priorities? Where do you want to live? Are you willing to work 70 hours a week for a lot of money? Or would you rather have more time for family even if it means less pay?
These sorts of questions are important to think about. They will help to guide you towards a career that suits your lifestyle. Number in order of priority to you the following things:
__ Challenge __ Independence
__ Family __ Power
__ Financial security __ Service to Others
Once you have done this, each time you think about a career option ask yourself, “Does this position offer the values that are most important to me?”
It is also important to recognize that there are many other factors that play a part in our career decisions. Skills and abilities, education, values are only one part of the pie. We also need to ensure that we are reflecting on things that may be outside of our control such a labour market trends, the needs and expectations of loved-ones . . .
A useful tool in career exploration is The Wheel, created by Norman Amundson & Gray Poehnell which illustrates the 8 main factors that influence career decisions.
The best choices with respect to career are made by taking all 8 factors into consideration.
Another way to get an idea of whether a career is suited to your lifestyle is to look at those who are already in that career. Does their day to day life appeal to you? Do they have enough time for their children? Are they too stressed or too bored?